Weddings are a time to celebrate love, not just between two people but also with those closest to us—including our pets! If you’re a pet-loving couple, it only makes sense to include your furry friend in your special day. Whether it’s a dog, cat, or even a more exotic pet, involving them in your wedding can add a unique and personal touch to your ceremony.

In this comprehensive guide, we’ll explore creative ways to include your pets in your wedding, covering everything from pet-friendly wedding venues to making sure your furry friends are safe and comfortable. Let’s make sure your special day is unforgettable—for both you and your pets!

1. Decide the Role Your Pet Will Play

The first step in including your pets in your wedding is figuring out the role they will play. Depending on your pet’s personality and the logistics of your wedding day, there are a few options to consider:

• Ring Bearer: If your dog is well-trained, they can be the perfect dog ring bearer, trotting down the aisle with your wedding bands safely attached to their collar or harness. Some couples even choose to have their cat, bunny, or even miniature horse act as a ring bearer.
• Flower Pet: Instead of a traditional flower girl, let your pet accompany the flower girl or even take on the job themselves!
• Wedding Greeter: or pets who love attention, let them greet guests as they arrive at the venue. A friendly dog or cat can make the ceremony even more welcoming.
• Honorary Guest: If your pet is shy or easily overwhelmed, you can have them present but not play an active role. A cute pet bed near the altar can make them part of the event without stress.

2. Choose a Pet-Friendly Venue

One of the most crucial parts of planning a pet-inclusive wedding is finding a pet-friendly wedding venue. Not all venues allow animals, so it’s important to ask ahead of time. Many outdoor venues, such as gardens, farms, and beaches, are more likely to welcome pets. Granite Ridge Estate welcomes Pets, as does this future post about The Lakehouse.

When selecting your venue, consider spaces that provide enough room for your dog or pet to roam freely and stay comfortable. Some couples have opted for dog-friendly wedding venues that even offer special amenities for your furry guests, like water stations and shaded areas.

Alert Your Guests: Some guests may have pet allergies, so make sure they’re aware that your pets will be part of the day. Include a note on your invitations if necessary.

3. Plan for Your Pet’s Comfort and Safety

Having your pets at your wedding can be a wonderful experience, but it’s essential to ensure their comfort and safety throughout the day. Weddings can be loud and overwhelming, so preparing for your pet’s needs is critical.

• Assign a Pet Handler: It’s a good idea to have a trusted friend or professional pet sitter serve as your pet handler on the big day. They can take care of your dog, cat, or other pets, making sure they’re happy, fed, and given bathroom breaks.
• Create a Pet-Friendly Space: Weddings can get busy, so be sure to set up a quiet area where your pet can retreat if they feel anxious or overstimulated. Include their favorite toys, bed, or crate to give them a familiar space to relax.
• Pack Essentials: Don’t forget to pack water, medication, food, treats, and waste bags for your pet. If the event is outdoors, bring sunscreen or protective gear if necessary.

4. Dress Your Pet for the Occasion

Dressing up your pet can be a fun way to incorporate them into your wedding theme. Whether it’s a custom bow tie, floral crown, or even a mini corsage, there are plenty of options to make your pet look wedding-ready. Just make sure that whatever outfit or accessory you choose is comfortable and doesn’t restrict movement. A dog-friendly wedding outfit should be lightweight and breathable, especially for outdoor weddings. For smaller pets, stick with simple accessories like collars, bandanas, or bow ties.

For dogs and cats, simple accessories often work best. You can find custom collars or leashes that match your wedding colors, or you can opt for a flower arrangement attached to a lightweight harness.

5. Including Pets in Your Wedding Photos

If your pet is part of your wedding, you’ll definitely want to capture those moments. Talk to your photographer in advance to plan for pet-friendly photos. I will ask you to bring your handler so that your pup can be ushered into shots and removed whenever they become anxious or over photo time! Some ideas include:

• Taking candid shots with your pet during the ceremony.
• Getting formal portraits with your pet alongside the bridal party.
• Using your pet in save-the-date or thank-you card photos.

If your pet isn’t attending the ceremony, you can still include them by scheduling a separate photoshoot before or after the big day. You can also include your pet during your engagement photos!

6. Plan for the “What-Ifs”

Even with the best planning, things can go awry when pets are involved. Consider some contingency plans:

• If your pet becomes anxious or uncooperative, have a backup plan, such as having the handler take them to a calm area.
• Be prepared for potential accidents, and let your venue and planner know ahead of time.
• Make sure to inform your guests that your pet will be part of the event, especially if anyone has allergies.

7. Consider a Pet-Free Wedding With a Special Tribute

Not all pets are suited for large events, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be part of your wedding. If your pet would be uncomfortable, consider alternatives like:

• Including your pet in engagement photos or save-the-dates.
• Incorporating pet-themed wedding favors or cake toppers.
• Having a video or slideshow with your pet to play during the reception.

8. Including your pets in your engagement photos

You’re welcome to include your pet in your engagement photos! Having your furry friend with you is a great way to make the session more personal and fun. However, I highly recommend bringing along a trusted pet handler to assist us. This allows you to focus on the most important part of the engagement shoot: getting comfortable with the camera and learning how to pose confidently.

The engagement session is all about building a connection between us and making sure you’re relaxed and prepared for your wedding day photography. It’s essentially a gift to you—ensuring that when the big day arrives, everything feels natural, efficient, and stress-free. If we spend too much time trying to get your pup to face the camera without help, we might lose valuable moments that are key to teaching you the poses and tips that will make your wedding photography effortless.

By having someone dedicated to managing your pet, we can capture beautiful shots with your furry companion while still focusing on making the most of your engagement shoot. It’s the best way to ensure you’re fully prepared for your big day, while still including your beloved pet in the memories!

Final Thoughts

Including your pets in your wedding can be a heartwarming and memorable experience. With the right planning, they can be part of your big day without any added stress. Whether they walk you down the aisle or simply join you for photos, your furry friend’s presence will make your wedding even more special.